Average Engagement Ring Size
The average diamond size for engagement rings is just around 1 carat. Don't worry if you can't meet it. Read on for how to get the best value.
Shopping for an engagement ring is a truly overwhelming task.
And if you're like most future grooms, you're probably most worried about the size of the diamond.
Most people place a large emphasis on size. It's often interpreted as a status symbol and measurement of love. A lot of people don't want to be embarrassed by giving or getting a diamond smaller than what their friends and coworkers have.
We did a study into what the average size is. If you can't meet it, don't worry. We also give you some good tips on how to get the best value and how to make a diamond look larger.
Average Diamond Size Survey
The average diamond size for engagement rings in the U.S. sits just around 1 full carat.
To answer this question even further, CreditDonkey conducted an independent survey across several major cities in the U.S. The results we found were:
- Los Angeles: 0.83 carat
- New York City: 1.45 carat
- Chicago: 1.29 carat
- Dallas: 1.04 carat
- Miami: 1.08 carat
So What Does This Mean? Does the Average Matter?
In our opinion, you shouldn't let the average diamond size influence your budget.
The most important thing is to get something you can afford. The ring is a symbol of your love, commitment, and promise of a future together. And you do not want to start that future in debt. So don't go into debt trying to reach the average if it's truly out of your budget.
Another thing people unwittingly do is sacrifice quality just to hit the desired goal. For example, maybe someone has a budget of $3,500 but wants to reach the average of 1 carat. Sure, you can buy a 1-carat diamond for $3,000 and have some left for the setting. But it's going to be a very poor quality diamond that looks dull. It's much better to buy a smaller diamond with an excellent cut.
In the next section, we give you some tips on how to get the best value so you avoid that mistake.
Getting the Best Bang for Your Buck
We get it that you want the largest diamond possible. Let's just make sure that you don't sacrifice quality for size. So here are some tips on getting the best value.
- Always get the best cut possible. Cut is the factor that determines how brilliant a diamond will be. Even the highest quality diamond will be dull if the cut is poor. If the diamond is sparkly, it can mask color, hide inclusions, and appear larger. This means you can save money on color and clarity.
We strongly suggest you read our detailed article on cut to understand why this is the most important factor. Please do not skimp on cut. This is the area where the extra money will make a huge difference in appearance.Did you know? Diamond cutters have a lot of pressure to hit that 1-carat mark. So often, the diamonds are not cut to ideal proportions. Not only does this mean bad light performance, it also means a lot of the carat weight could be hidden in the depth. So you're basically spending extra money just to have 1-carat on paper, but it's really wasted on something you can't even see.
- Look for a diamond slightly under the magic numbers. The magic numbers are every 0.5 carats. At these weights, diamond sellers can fetch significantly more. If you go just below a magic number, you can pick up a diamond for as much as 25% less.
For example, a VS2 H Excellent cut diamond that is 1 full carat costs around $5,800. But keeping all other C's the same and dropping the carat weight down to 0.9 will also drop the price down to $4,800. And nobody is going to be able to tell the size difference.
- Get a diamond lower in clarity. Clarity is the best area to save some money on. Most flaws are too small to be seen by the naked eye. We recommend looking for VS2 diamonds. And it's not impossible to find eye-clean SI1, SI2, or even I1 diamonds. This can literally save you thousands.
- Yellow gold or rose gold rings are cheaper than white gold. It's not that the setting itself is cheaper. It's the fact that you can buy a diamond lower in color, which means huge savings. For a 1-carat stone, going down to a J-color can save a couple thousand dollars. You can then use that towards a bigger diamond if you wish.
Tip: Here's another best kept secret: A diamond with medium-strong fluorescence can improve the color in lower-grade diamonds (I and below). Fluorescence is a natural phenomenon where the diamond glows blue under UV light. It can cancel out some of the yellow in lower-colored diamonds and make them whiter.
- Shop online: Online retailers offer much better pricing because of their low overhead. In another independent study, we found that buying a diamond online cost as much as 40% less than at traditional, big-name diamond retailers (for diamonds with the same characteristics). See our favorite online diamond retailers.
How to Make a Diamond Appear Larger
You've looked at all you can do to save (above), but still have trouble reaching the average? Don't worry. There are some options to help make a smaller diamond appear larger.
- Halo settings make a diamond larger. I love this trick. One of the most popular settings is the halo, which has a ring of small diamonds around the center diamond. This setting gives off serious bling and makes it look as if the diamond is huge.
A bezel setting also works the same way by increasing the overall diameter (as long as the bezel is not so thick that it makes the diamond look smaller).Watch out: The worst settings for making a diamond appear larger is the 3-stone or side stones. Thick heavy bands also kill a smaller diamond.
- Consider a fancy-shaped diamond. Another favorite suggestion is to go for another shape. Not only do fancy-cut diamonds often appear larger than they are, they're cheaper than round, too. And plus, they are more unique and will appeal to girls who like to stand out in a crowd.
Pear and marquise shapes look the largest. Just stay away from the asscher cut, which has the smallest surface area of all shapes.
- Thin bands make a diamond larger. The thinner the band, the larger the center diamond will appear. Knife-edge bands give the illusion of a very thin skank. Another good setting is to go with a thin pavé band. Setting it in a band of small diamonds will make the center stone pop.
- Cluster settings give the illusion of a huge diamond. This is when a cluster of smaller diamonds make up the center. So from farther away, it looks like one big diamond. This is a relatively inexpensive way to get a large center.
The size of the diamond is such a personal choice. If you can meet it - great! If not, don't let the number scare you or make you think you need to spend beyond your means. It's most important that the ring is in line with your budget. Also don't make the diamond size your absolute top priority, at the expense of beauty.
Lastly, remember - the ring is a symbol of love and commitment. There are many ways to show that without spending a fortune - whether it's putting in the effort to plan an unforgettable proposal, or designing the perfect ring unique to her style. These are all more meaningful gestures than simply buying a diamond that matches the national average.